any disagreement or control or injustice in human to human relationship does not require any punishment, ofcourse legal law's are their..for any illegal activities which we have no control over..
But in daily life for general issues , Who are we to punish or want someone else to punish them because they didn't behave the way you wanted them too
..only the awareness needed to heal both side
Daily Meditation, breathing work practice helps
Our mind health is very important to improve our relationship with everything and everyone around....
Ofcourse we all think on surface level that we are at joyful, peaceful, intelligence, loving, caring, and in harmony with ourself or with others, and at the sametime if suddenly something comes up which we never expected..so that time art of behavior requires.. which is art of awareness about our own behavior...( Mind)
everyone has right to live or behave the way they like and if any disagreement or injustice that affect our own life , relationship or our mind then we must look at it the way that something we didn't put 100% towards them or even if we did or not then we are still going closer to God by (dhyan and gyan)
Lets see ..If any disagreement or injustice has done by someone it is so hard to forgive or move on.. because of not knowing ( the god plan )but we must let it go and surrender to god, because in a way this disagreement or injustice is helps to look inward and is the best ever happened which makes person to go closer to God . So we do think about it over and over which is ok sometimes, but staying in that thnking is not good, instead not think about it again for that situation or if we allow ourself to depress or affect our future actions negatively towards him or her then we are not giving him or her the opportunity to improve in his relations with us, with god and himself as well. then ofcourse we also suffer since we forgot to learn that we are part of whole.
If the person come out of it well or heal from ill- feelings towards us then we will supported him or her to move towards his or her destination and we help our self as well and we stll behave with him or her with love , care and understanding that it is a part of learning for both.
This way we support to improve ourself and our family and society more peaceful way and that is the only way we can better served.
Or
Ofcourse lots of other methods may used...
as not knowing the god plan and giving reaction by withdrawing from and still staying in situation because of fear or ignoring the person or not talking, not teling the truth, or taking revange or punishing or avoiding or stoping communication because of not knowing the god plan...
Which will only create more suffering
Ofcourse its a individual choice..
Mistakes or misunderstanding are a part of life for any human to human but the truth is relationship only survive wiith honesty and commitment!
