Parents Divorce, affairs, separation or loss of both or either one parent!! Does effect kids life?

every each case is Different but..,
Yes, please remember Kids need parents!
Father should not be optional for kids growth! And Mother should not be optional for kids growth also! and if that's not the case then ask someone who you can trust and can guide you in that direction but following once heart is the best!!

So what happens when marriage breaks down for any reason? in today's society?? how does it's affect children???
well, when marriage break down, the loss or absence of mother or father, can be destructive or harmful to a child's  upbringing. Yes...of course children do best with a married mother and father!
Because the father, male energy..brings unique share to the guidance of parenting that a mother cannot! and together......a mother and father, the different approaches are balanced to nurture the child confidence and help him to develop his experiences!!!!
Specially In married life if kids are involved and somehow marriage doesn't work out then parents must try to work it out with deep love and awareness for kids and other person because love is all about giving unconditionally! so to staying together shouldn't become a burden for any family members! and if does then there is a way to bring partners relationship or kids relationship together again if they desire..but divorce is not the way...,we must take care our own creation ( birth kids)  Father are important for the emotional and intellectual growth of kids and mother are important for protection, to nurture and guide carefully for day to day life for child's healthy life!!
and if divorce has to take place then it's choice one make for personal needs, it's never about the kids! because kids already has choosen parents before they decide to take birth for their upbringing, Parents don't chooses kids ,  they only welcome them, so how can parents separate themselves because it doesn't workout between them! However do what make sense for individual life or works best for individual needs!
But if one ready for the consequences then again it's become personal choice! Who am I to judge what's right or wrong, I do believe that every case is different but I can say that it is still limited!!
Of course, When we don't find the answer outside, then our inner self has all answers!! Trust and faith is needed!!Higher power is at work!!

Forgiveness!!

Sending your love and forgiveness to all whome you have ever wronged and all who have ever wronged you, releasing the situations into God hands!!